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[quote=Anonymous]I am over it with my STBXW.  We have been separated physically for 8 months now.  The custodial is clear on the do's and do not's.  However, my STBXW is now bringing her former AP/Boyfriend to her house and the kids are calling me to say they feel scared around him.  I tried to address it with my STBXW but she says they kids are find and we have 50/50 custody so you have no say on who I bring over my house.  Is it wrong to tell my kids that if at any time you feel that way, call me and I will pick you up.  We live close by so the kids can walk to my house.  Before I get lawyers involved or the police to make sure my kids are ok, any guidance would be helpful.  I know there is still a transition time for the kids to adapt to two homes but I know my oldest who is 14 is very clear he does not want anything to do with the person my STBXW brought over.  I tried talking to him and even took him to see a therapist and he still does not want to discuss. As to my two youngest boys (5/8), they are doing better but they keep saying a stranger spends a lot of time at the house.  I just need to make sure all my kids feel secure when they are not with me.   [/quote]

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