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[quote=Anonymous]DH’s family all gets together on Christmas evening. I had to work until 6PM and the plan was that I would come home afterwards, get ready, and then stop by DH’s parents house after work. I’m a social worker and had multiple home visits on Christmas Eve and was in serious need of a shower after work.

DH left at 3PM, he had the entire day off. I had asked DH while I was at work to move my laundry, clean the fridge out, and pick up something for Christmas breakfast. We didn’t have anything in the fridge except for food that needed to be thrown out. I didn’t have clean clothes that fit (6 months pregnant and my wardrobe is limited right now). When I got home, my clothes were soaking wet and there was no food in the fridge. We had returned home late from a vacation the evening prior and hadn’t had time to do laundry or grocery shop. I rushed to the grocery store to get some groceries and was home by 7PM because the store was nightmarishly busy and moved the laundry. DH was blowing up my phone the entire time, I hopped in the shower at 7:30 but by the time I got out at 7:45 DH said he was in his way home.

DH complained that I didn’t show up. I didn’t have the time because he a) left me a chores that he was supposed to do and b) he left early! He said everyone was asking where I was. I’m so annoyed. This was not my fault but I end up looking like the one who snubbed Christmas.

DH has ADHD and is easily distracted, I’ve found if I ask him direct tasks he will do them but not all in order or in a timely manner. I’ve forgiven him but seriously frustrated that he couldn’t pull his weight to make my life a little easier. [/quote]

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