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[quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend is a serious gym rat and body builder and he likes to wear tight clothes that show off his muscles. This is cool with me, up to a point, and I am glad he is a hunk. He’s in his late 40s but has the body of a 25 year old who is in great shape.  The problem is: he wears lycra and thin cotton pants and shorts that are so tight you can see not only his muscles but every centimeter of his junk. I mean, his pants leave nothing all to the imagination. Testicles, penis? You can see i everything outlined very, very clearly through the fabric.

I don’t care what he wears when he’s alone or we’re alone together in the house, but this makes me uncomfortable when others are around, mainly because I feel like it makes everyone around him uncomfortable.

I tried to tell DH this (in the context of a visit from my parents... who were very carefully and obviously trying not to stare at his crotch).  When we were alone briefly I whispered, “sweetie, your pants are kind of see-through!” He was like, “what are you talking about?” I said, “you might want to change, you can see everything.” Honestly, I told him because I thought he maybe just does not realize how revealing his pants and shorts are. (I mean: if my pants were see-through I would sure want him to tell me, and I would be mortified and would find different pants.) But he got very angry, basically told me I was a prude and this is my problem, not his, and if I love him I should be comfortable with whatever he chooses to wear, etc., then he stomped off and didn’t speak to me for the rest of the evening.

What do you all think? Am I just being a prude? Obviously, he’s a grown man, he’s going to decide for himself what to wear— but is it unreasonable for me to tell him that his tight pants sometimes make me uncomfortable?[/quote]

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