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[quote=Anonymous]I need someone to tell me whether I am crazy or I am right to be upset.
I am 30 weeks pregnant with our third baby. My parents are in town for the holidays and took our kids to museums for the day. I am working from home so stayed in and wrote (my job). DH has a super easy time at work this time a year so he went to the gym at 10:30 had lunch nearby with friends and ended up having drinks with friends and did not come home until after 6. He came home drunk. 
We are in a very tight financial situation because of a property that i own and we are trying to sell (with no success) that is super expensive. As a result, until
We sell this place, we are routinely spending more than we make. I have not gotten anything for me (nails, hair, massage, clOthers, books, etc.) since May because I am trying to contain our expens. DH has been going out for HH and dinners, etc. At least 5 times in the last 2 weeks. Occasionally coming home drunk. 
I feel this is a huge slap in my face. I would love to get a massage or get a pedicure, but I don’t (I also don’t go out to lunch or dinner). Today he spent probably $80 between lunch and fancy drinks.
I have been crying since he got home and told me what he did. My parents are aware and I am embarrassed about that too. Why is DH such an a$$?
I feel like I deserve better... why couldn’t he have bought me a massage forChristmas instead of spending money on drinks (once again)?[/quote]

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