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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I have thought about that yes. I see her in long conversations with others that are one on one. But I haven’t talked with her in a group setting in 3 years. But we still see each other fairly often. I’ve been turning down invites lately. [/quote]

Turning down invites for these group things, or turning down invites to see her alone? Which is it? Or are you turning down both? If so, the one doing the cold shoulder is you.

If you stop the group stuff, fine. You clearly don't enjoy those things if you spend them distracted because she's not paying you the attention you expect from her while there. But if you actually like her when you're with just her, why stop being friends who just meet up individually?

It sounds like you just do not like group settings but do like her enough to want her attention, so drop group stuff and tell her you're more comfortable with seeing her alone. This isn't hard and does not have to be dramatic. She doesn't have a personality disorder like some nonsensical drama queen PP claims. It sounds like she just is a more social person in groups than you are and she probably thinks you enjoy these events and are off socializing like she is. [/quote]

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