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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long have you been focusing on your home life, and would your spouse say it's enough? Your spouse figures your efforts are going to be short lived, then you'll revert back to your old ways. So they are hedging their bets by keeping the other person around for when that happens. You need to give it time to prove to spouse that things are going to stay that way. [/quote] Not long enough but it has been acknowledged that this time my turnaround has been deeper and more sustained than before. I have communicated my fear that there will be a relapse by me and what effect that will have on the friendship. We’ve talked about ways to mitigate the effect of my eventual return to my professional funk. I don’t think the spouse is keeping the friend around for that reason but acknowledge the friend could see it that way. [/quote]
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