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[quote=Anonymous]Do you two ever go over your bills together? It kind of sounds like he's managing all the money, and you make it sound like you're broke. If he claims he has to sell investments to cover the bills, you should be able to see (he should be able to show you) where you are both spending more than your income and a sale happened in order to cover the bills. Somehow I doubt it's the Lyft trips or occasional lunch out. I do think he was right to point out the shortfall in your paycheck as that was a significant amount. My DH & I had a little of this going on too earlier in our marriage, but as PP at 22:10 said- you have to learn to push back on that and he can learn to pick his battles better. Talk first, but then do it. I'd have trouble with the lack of transparency about his assets. But I'm the money manager in our family and it would freak me out not to have any idea what he has.[/quote]
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