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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, I have. It will pass. I really helps to acknowledge to yourself that these feelings are real and valid in as much as they FEEL real and are powerful. Don't shame yourself, don't feel that it's wrong. Theyr'e just feelings. But you also acknowledge to yourself that this is hormonal and chemical and it will pass. It cannot be sustained, and your brain is acting essentially as if it's on drugs. Give yourself a fixed amount of time in a day to focus on it, obsess, daydream--and that's it. No more, and you stick to it. Eventually it will pass. I am very grateful I did not act on my feelings. It passed. If I'd acted I'd be horrified now--no way it would have ended well. I'm grateful now for the experience. It's sort of beautiful and quintessentially human to have that level of excitement in your life. Just remember the fantasy is better than the reality.[/quote]
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