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[quote=Anonymous]DH quit smoking before we married several years ago. Today, I found a receipt for cigarettes and asked him what’s going on? He said he is smoking again but only casually and is not addicted (I haven’t seen him doing it on weekends-he claims he doesn’t smoke on the weekend). He’s in grad school and works full time and we just had our second child a few weeks ago. It seems the smoking started when our second was born. I’m so incredibly disappointed and bummed. I just don’t want to be with a smoker. I don’t want our children to see him smoke. He’s also gained so much weight in the last year, and continues to gain. I’ve asked him what we can do to make his life less stressful and create space for his self care. He just shuts down and lies/negates/minimizes/denies there is any problem. The reality is-we already outsource a lot and I do more parenting than him as it is even though I work full time as well. What else can I do? [/quote]
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