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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He made a move that you shut down.  If you want to test the waters you'll have to make the move this time.[/quote]

It's on you to change the status quo, OP.[/quote]

OP here: Yeah, I do get that might be the big issue. I just don't want to do it and then get the, "You're a sweet woman, and I really like you, but not that way..." speech and make him feel like he can't be close to me without me getting the wrong idea. I mean, I want HIM in my life, under whatever circumstances make sense, more than I want to f*ck him. (Although, the f*cking sounds good too. I'm pretty sure he would be great in bed.)[/quote]

Guy here.  Because you shut him down before, he is not going to make the next move.  #metoo.  Particularly if he is a good person.

I would tell him "you are my best friend, I want you in my life in any fashion.  With that said, I am interested in finding out if there could be more." Then, lean in for a kiss.  If he responds, guide his hand to where you wan them to go.  or suggest going to a private spot.

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PP here.  Let me tell you a story.  Back when I was in college, 30+ years ago, I had a crush on this classmate.  But I was afraid to lose the friendship.  So, we went out as friends but never more.  After graduation, I ran into her once or twice at meetings.  We chatted, but that was it.

Many years later, her name pops up on "people you may know" on facebook.  We started talking a little bit.  I found out that she was waiting to ask me out.  She finally decided I must be gay or something, as I never dated.  Nope.  Just shy.     It probably would not have worked out long term, as I was not ready for a relationship at 22, but it could have been fun.  (Nothing happened later, as I am happily married now).  [/quote]

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