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[quote=Anonymous]Happy Thanksgiving from redneck Middle America.

To keep it short, I won't include all the details of how we learned this and the complicated back story, but it came directly from the "other guy," who is a long time friend known for absolutely no drama.

Tonight we discovered my brother in laws girlfriend was dating another guy, our friend, while BIL and Other Guy thought they were exclusive.

Timeline:
Early July, other guy meets girlfriend and starts dating her. They go on a weekender together with some of our other friends in late August. Last time they slept together was early October. They were not using condoms. She basically made up a lame excuse for why she couldn't spend the weekend with him in late October and then ghosted him. They discussed that they were exclusive.

Late July, brother in law meets girlfriend and starts dating her. They get serious pretty quickly, introducing each others kids by early September. They were going on trips together and brother in law believed they were exclusive by Sept. She is spending most nights at his house now and has nearly moved in, including having her children sleep at his house on an air mattress some nights.

Girlfriend is done with the other guy, they are over. But it sounds like there were 2 - 3 months of overlap where they both thought they were exclusive and she was sleeping with both of them. Thoughts? Shit is moving very fast in the relationship and Brother In Law has referenced needing his large house because eventually they'll all move in permanently. In front of her and the kids. What a dumbass. [/quote]

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