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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am late 30's, and after dating after divorce with a young child, this is what I recommend about your situation.

Set up coffee/drink dates near some of these activities you want to do.  A lot of people will talk about what they "like" to do, want to do or what they have done (in another life), but you want to figure out if this person is a good match for your future.

I suggest chatting on the phone a little bit before meeting up.  I'm not a big phone talker in general unless it's with family, but people are different on the phone than they are in person.  But you want something with regular potential, so putting more stock in talking on the phone can weed out a bunch of people.

I also suggest not having sex on the first couple of dates.  It's way easier to find bad sex looking for good sex and good company.

My two best situations like this... one was found on Tinder and was amazing for it's time.  Another was found in person and was amazing for its time.  I think they both are good venues to pursue either one at a time or at the same time.  You're going to have good times going nowhere and experiences that make you feel bad.  Even if you're not looking for a commitment.[/quote]

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