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Reply to "I feel like I am going to explode but I can't say anything"
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[quote=Anonymous]How much of a raise did he ask for? Did he suggest a plan to work towards a financial goal maybe over a longer period of time? If there is a lot of turnover on this contract, your DH employer may be willing to think of a different approach to avoid more turnover and turmoil. If you’re in your 20s, have a 2 year old, and your income can allow more overall value for the family there, I think that’s the argument you should constructively present to your husband. How much of your salary would be foregone if moving causes you to lose employment? You two are a team and need to look at this jointly, not just one pwrson’s Point of view. Both in the aggregate. Put it all on a spreadsheet with dollar figures attached to each choice and option. Run the average cost of rent, moving quotes etc. print and show to him.[/quote]
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