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[quote=Anonymous]The deadline is probably putting him into overdrive of anxiety but you have two issues to deal with. His fears are irrational and cannot dictate your reasonable expectations. You need to do what your rational mind and heart tells you to do. He needs to deal with his fears as its limiting his life and he has to understand that his anxiety can’t define yours. There are solutions and alternatives but you’re seeing that he’s unwilling/unable to embrace them. Marriage counseling and individual therapy is proyneeded. Whether he’ll be able to join you this year can’t be known yet but you should go. I am not a good flyer but I deal with it. I am not dismissing his anxiety but you can’t hide from life. If you had a family member have a medical crisis or worse-what is his expectation?? His job might change and travel start again-it’s possible. Don’t ignore [/quote]
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