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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm posting again because I am not feeling better. WTF is wrong with me. I don't want to harp on this to friends/family because they think I'm doing better and I WAS. What happened to me!? Why does this feel like I've gone back in time? I just keep sitting here, dwelling on the worst things, just like you do at the very beginning of a split. I already did this, I don't want to do this again. [/quote]

I agree with the above poster.  Grief isn’t linear.  You will have good days and bad days.  And when you think “wow, I got this, I’m GOOD” something comes along and knocks you backwards.  It’s unfortunately part of the process.  It’s almost like a rebirth.  You have to go through the worst pain imaginable to be able to come out a stronger person on the other side.  Unfortunately it seems like many, many of us women on this website have been through what you’re going through.  You will ge through it.  It just takes time.  Honestly.  I thought I’d be the exception.  I’m a strong woman with a very large support system.  It still two almost two full years to heal.  Nothing you do will speed it up, you just have to go through it and I’m so sorry.

On a side note I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life.  And thankful for the dissolution of my 19 year marriage as a result.  If I was still married I’d never have realize how happy I could be.  It took a lot to get here though.  I hope you join me here soon!  [/quote]

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