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[quote=Anonymous]I'm recently divorced and just saw via social media that my ex is now with the woman he swore he never cheated on me with. I have spent so much time in therapy just getting comfortable with this divorce, coming to terms with the guilt about my role in it, gaining the confidence that my ex did things that were horrible and I didn't have to stay, even though he still says it's my fault because I was the one who left. All this time and energy and effort and I thought I really believed it, and then this just... blows all that apart. I know in my head that this does not matter, that this should only PROVE that I don't want to be married to him, but it just brings all those old feelings of insecurity back to the surface. Never mind the fact that I have dabbled in dating but just haven't really felt truly ready so I've backed off. And now I'm going thorugh it all again, the "what could I have done differently" that leads to nowhere.

I've already un-followed his sister on social media (that's where I happened to see it so obviously don't want that to happen again.) So just give me the tough love, DCUM. Tell me this doesn't change the fact that he was a shitty husband who did shitty things, and that even though he "blames me", that doesn't matter. I really wish that didn't matter to me. [/quote]

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