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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend of mine became a mom and I understand things change but
I feel like we’ve bent backwards for her. As friends if X day to see her was not good because she couldn’t make it, we would all accommodate her. We’re a tight knit group but lately we have come to realize she isn’t really accommodating to us

She always has to bring her kid with her and frankly we like time for just adults.

I decided to speak out when we were having wine night at our friends house  and she thought bringing her kid
Along would be fine. I told her if she could get a sitter that would be great and if she couldn’t
Maybe next time when she could she should meet with us.

The gatherings turn into us having to make sure her kid doesn’t get into anything
And watching what we say keeping it PG.

She just said “Ok” and hasn’t been receptive.

I don’t see why she can’t just see that it’s not always about her or her kid

I spoke up for the group because we were getting tired of playing sitter since 
We all have to accommodate due to her bringing the kid around -making sure it’s kid friendly
Not swearing. Etc. [/quote]

What a horrible sacrifice on your part.  :roll:.  You probably won't understand until you have children yourselves, which is a shame since your friend will be long gone by then. [/quote]

Oh, shut up. You’re probably just like OP’s friend, Captain Mommy Martyr, I cant go anywhere without my kid, everyone must love my snot nosed annoying germ machine. Stop. OP and her friends are perfectly fine in feeling how they do and I commend OP for actually speaking up to this rude entitled woman. Presumably there is a father in the picture so why wouldn’t he watch the kid while the women have wine night once in awhile? No sitter needed. Instead, this woman just wants everyone else to accommodate her. That’s not how it works. PLENTY of people still maintain a social life and be a good friend even after children. OP’s friend isn’t a good friend. [/quote]

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