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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a co-workerI am in love with and that I’ve slept with in the past. Amazing, mind blowing sex, and we connect on a million different levels. We communicate everyday, and it’s a mix of work and non-work stuff. For a bunch of reasons we can’t be together right now (we live a few hundred miles away from each other to start). We have always kept things casual/non-exclusive, but a few weeks ago I mentioned that I wasn’t going to wait for co-worker. Co-worker suddenly seems more intererested then previously. Lots of smaller check ins, little affectionate notes and texts, pet names, etc. What is going on here? I seriously love this person and if we could ever move some of the big rocks like the distance, I know we could make it work, but we’ve had hard conversations about these things and neither of us is willing to move and there are a few things that co-worker specifically needs to address before the future unfolds. [/quote]

You need individual therapy.  Why would you ever engage with this? It's very common for people to focus on a long-distance unavailable partnership which is romanticized and all the negatives ignored and positives idealized in order to avoid dealing with real-life romance.  Why are you doing this?

The bottom line is you have chemistry but not the necessary day to day compatibility (like having careers in the same city) that is required for a successful relationship.  There are plenty of other people you can find chemistry with who will have better day to day compatibility.  Throw this fish back (or stop watching it swim around in another tank).

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