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[quote=Anonymous]I could have written this. My husband recently gave me a list of things I do wrong. They included things like “screw lids on properly or ask for help”. I spoke to a friend about it, and she suggested that 1). I don’t take it personally. 2). He is feeling lonely and ineffective and this is his way of dealing with it. 3). Reminding him that he has no control over me, and 4). Tell him he has to talk to his AA sponsor before this can be resolved. I liked this. The idea of forcing him to take responsibility for this, and not letting him frame the argument as how bad it is that I screwed on the jar lid incorrectly, putting me on the defensive. Good luck![/quote]
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