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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What was the argument about?[/quote]

He has maintained a close relationship with his ex (keeping a picture of her in the house, meeting her for movies, lunch, etc), and I've always been okay with it because he told me early on that she meant a lot to him even though their relationship failed. To be perfectly honest, I was hoping as he and I got closer, their relationship would dwindle a bit. I know how hard it is to transition from a unit to singledom after years of cohabiting. Anyway, there was a day where he just seemed down, so I came over to check on him. He collapsed into my arms in tears because a person he'd dated after the split with his ex (the one he's still close with) was depressed over their relationship not working out. He told me he felt so bad for hurting this person because they meant so much to him. He spent an hour crying on me. I love that he loves people so deeply, but I won't pretend like it didn't sting a lot.

I didn't say anything to him that night, but the next day, I brought up the fact that I was feeling a little raw over having to watch him still feel so much emotional investment in his exes. [/quote]

Dude sounds like a train wreck. Too much baggage [/quote]

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