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[quote=Anonymous]About a week ago, my boyfriend and I had an argument. It wasn't about anything substantial-- just something that had been bothering me that I thought I'd bring up with him because I don't like things to fester. However, at one point during the argument, he said "Is doing this really worth us being together?"

Ever since then, I have felt completely different about him. Prior to this point, we had a really steamy love life, and I wanted him constantly. It's like a switch flipped for me after hearing him say that, and I've been wondering if I mean so little to him. I did talk to him about his statement, and he said "I just don't think a relationship where you have to argue every few months is worth it" but then followed up with "I only said it out of anger. I'm sorry. I didn't mean it."  The ambiguity of those two statements together doesn't help the situation.

What would you do? I'm torn because it is NOT healthy to feel this way, but if it's just me being hyper-sensitive to a statement said in anger, I most definitely don't want to start another argument since he clearly thinks each argument diminishes the value of a relationship.

Would you talk to him about this, or just let it go?[/quote]

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