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[quote=Anonymous]  "Puberty Moment" is my euphemism for when my older child acts like a beast usually during a growth spurt and acne breakout. Thankfully, after the growth spurt/hormonal surge he goes back to being relatively pleasant. Tonight here were some puberty moments:

-Homework time: I monitor and give breaks. It usually goes pretty smoothly when not in beast mode. Tonight though, he struggled and instead of calmly asking for help he screamed "This is all your fault!" I calmly ask "How is this my fault?" He then responds "How dare you say that to me!' I said I know he is frustrated and he can take a break if he needs to, but he needs to use a respectful tone. Then I get "You are yelling at me Mom! Stop yelling." I explain I was not yelling...He breaks into tears "How dare you tell me to take a break." I tell him he doesn't have to take a break. We then end up in the most irrational all over the place conversation with him alternating between crying and yelling. I go take a break away from him. He yells at me and then apologizes and says he doesn't know why he is like this and he begs me to come back.

Anyone relate? If this were every day I would get help, but it always coincides with an acne breakout and then a height increase that week. After he grows, he goes back being somewhat rational and he can manage his emotions most days.

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