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[quote=Anonymous]Their loss if they're basing their opinion of her on what she does for a living (...and it will quite literally be their loss if they keep this up). Your brother could do a LOT worse than a caring, good person who loves children, who treats him well, and whom he is deeply in love with. They sound appearance obsessed. Are you looking for advice or just venting? If the latter...I understand. My parents were kind of like this too, although they've mellowed with age. It's kind of sad how much they cared about what their peers / acquaintances thought. If the former, you should: say only positive things about you SIL, be open and welcoming bad supportive, and if your parents try to speak disparagingly of her to you, shut it down immediately. Defend her, and remind your mom that her being phony nice and shit talking is both unbecoming and a sure way to make sure she plays. Very small role in the lives of her son and future grandchildren [/quote]
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