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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband.   :(

Every.single.time we have any type of disagreement, he storms away from me, refuses to talk to me, and basically acts like a child.  I am just so sick of not being able to discuss things and let them go.  He is no longer the man I married.  And he calls me names and if I dare touch him, like on his shoulder to calm him down, he tells me to take my hands off him and not touch him.  As long as I don’t rock the boat, he is fine.  And it’s over the dumbest things too.  I’m not blameless,  but why go from zero to 100 over tiny disagreements.  I am so sick of him.[/quote]

This is my husband too.  I pretty much walk on eggshells around him so as not to anger him.  He gets insanely mad over things that I don't understand why he would be mad about.  Case in point:  I got a flat tire on the way to work last week.  I called him and he said he would come help me change the tire/bring our patch kit to fix it.  A nice man walking his dog stopped and helped me put my spare tire on.  I called my H to let him know someone was helping me and he didn't need to come.  He absolutely exploded, saying that I was so disrespectful and wasted his time because he had stopped what he was doing and was starting to drive to where I was, and I ruined his morning for nothing.  He was seriously so mad about it that he kept texted me, cussing me out and refused to speak with me for the entire day, would just hang up on me.

I had thought, hey, he can turn around and go back home and not worry about helping me, which I thought he would be happy about.  Instead, he was super p!ssed, and I just didn't understand it.  He made me apologize profusely and beg for forgiveness for it, but I really don't understand what the H I was apologizing for?!  But I did so as not to rock the boat....

I FN hate being married.  He was not like this 10 years ago.  [/quote]

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