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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse is going schorched earth. Same issues- alcohol narcissism etc.
You know what you do? You protect your kids and you do it through whatever means necessary. Frankly outside of verifiable abuse (which obviously warrants the police”, the rest of it like videos of him drinking or saying mean things just don’t matter much to the court. You could get a GAL or a PRE (in my state) to evaluate if there is a custody issue, but again- in this day and age it’s very very hard to get actual full custody. I have 80% time with the kids and primary physical custody sole legal custody - and it took a record of a years worth of verified threats to get that.

The truth is that you’re legally and financially tied and will be for some time. He has the power to scorch your earth with few repercussions- but the sooner you accept that this may happen and you will be OKAY ANYWAY because you will be away from an addicted using scary person.

By virtue of that alone, your earth will not be scorched. Move through this and pay them with as much self respect as you can muster- you may have to fake it at first but it comes quickly once you’ve siezed control of your life back.

You can do this. Good luck, I promise you it’s worth it.[/quote]

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