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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am of the mindset that if you are contemplating cheating or put yourself in a position to cheat, then the right thing to do is to end your current relationship before it happens. I get it that it would be uncomfortable for Diana to attend the destination that Steve will be attending. [b]It would especially be awkward to attend if her current husband attends with her. Either he knows about it and it will be uncomfortable for both of them, or he doesn't know about it and she'll be sweating the whole time wondering if it will be brought up.[/b] Either way, the consequences of cheating can rear their ugly heads far after the actual cheating ends.  [/quote]

OP here. This is the thing I keep hanging up on. I can understand why it would be uncomfortable even if her husband already knows. But if that's the case I don't understand why she can't just say that to Stacy - "I'm so happy that you're getting married, but it would be really uncomfortable for Dave to be there given my past with Steve, so we've decided not to come."

Instead she's looking for excuses not to go, considering staying at a different resort from the group to minimize her time with them outside of the actual wedding itself if she goes, etc.[/quote]

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