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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m concerned that you agreed to separate when you lost your job. A friend did this a few years ago and ultimately, she was screwed over in the financial settlement. She also had to move to find a new job and the judge (rightfully) sided with the kids staying here. Now she sees them once a month. [/quote] How was she screwed over[/quote] 1) she didn’t have money to keep fighting for 1/2 2) her H knew she couldn’t afford the house OR the kids’ tuition. She gave up her claim on the house (half of ten years’ equity) and he pays the tuition. There was no abuse or cheating. They just drifted apart and she saw the job loss as a chance to reinvent herself. She wanted an artsy job and lifestyle. He stayed stable for the kids. It’s starting to settle in now. [/quote]
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