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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you're not ready for a complete cut-off, but just need help managing your relationship with her, is that right? There's a way to do this but you will probably need the help of a therapist. It involves in great part letting go and not trying to control what SHE does, and controlling what YOU do. In other words, boundaries. That means -- you have to do things like defriend or mute her on facebook and ignore her drama. Screen her calls and emails and give the information you want to, when you want to. On the other hand, if you chose not to tell her directly, you have to accept her being cold and distant. [/quote]
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