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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Dear John I Love Jane is AMAZING, I read it and one story hit so close to home I contacted the author and we have talked about our lives. I was married to a man for 10 years, 2 kids, the whole 9 yards.....I am now divorced and about to get married to the love of my life (another woman) I have never been happier. Its never too late to be happy OP[/quote]

How did your ExDH and kids handle the divorce?[/quote]

My guess is she doesn’t really know. [/quote]

My kids handled it much better than expected, they are very well adjusted at this point 3 years out. They get along very well with my partner, we all enjoy our time together. And because I now have a partner I get to enjoy some one on one time with each kid once in awhile because it’s not just me. I also have a very good co-parenting relationship with my ex husband. It took us about 1.5-2 years to be able to get our schedule down and emotions in check, but right now we are doing about as well as I could have imagined.

My ex husband did not handle it well for a long time, however our marriage had disintegrated and he was controlling and abusive. It would have been on the way out regardless. He still thinks that the whole situation is unfair to him when I still feel I lost myself in our marriage and he treated me very badly towards the end [/quote]

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