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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't feel bad about doing your own thing for 4 weeks while DH travels. Remind your DH that he can plan a visit when he gets back. Then move along and do what you want. Also, it's not fair for him to "hint" at this if he knows things were bad before. While rules don't need to be 100% set in stone, since he's not the one dealing with the bad behavior he should not be adding pressure on you. [/quote] I think he was testing the waters and I hope he doesn’t mention it again. [/quote] I would have called him out on it. "Wait, really? Hon, we have talked about this and your parents don't treat me well when you are not here. So no, I will not go out of my way to see them while you are gone. You can schedule a visit for XY weekend after you are back, and I will plan to have lunch with a friend and go shopping."[/quote]
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