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[quote=Anonymous]I understand the idea of a monthly "allowance" because it is her discretionary spending money. But OP it has to be in the context of a larger budget discussion. Every dollar that he earns should have a destination. So, make a budget with him. Start easy - start with the fixed costs of the mortgage and the bills. Say he has 10k per month and you guys are spending 3k on the bills. Then 1k is going to retirement. 1k as going to college savings. 1k is the entertainment budget. He needs 2k for discretionary things like his haircuts and gadgets. Then you also get 2k for your discretionary things. You should both know where the money is going so that you are not eyeing his new Versace jacket while you could not afford your china cabinet. [/quote]
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