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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much do you value this relationship/how much abuse are you willing to endure for the sake of it?

It sounds like she needed you at a time you weren't able to be there for her, for totally legitimate reasons. (I'd add that this is one of the things I hated about being single, before I got married - needing things from people for whom someone else was the primary person in their lives; it's humiliating to be in that position, and no fun at all to need things you can't get.)

And now she holds a grudge. You've tried to get her over that - she's resisted. You might be able to wheedle or beg your way back in. Do you really want to? Do you want to give this person what she is asking for? It sounds like you want her to be a normal friend, and she wants you to be a primary person in her life. [/quote]

I think I do want her to be a "normal" friend.  I am not going to beg - because that would be indicating that I'm willing to put her needs over DS or DH or my own.  I should mention, she is married, not single. I think she is just used to me filling a certain role or behaving a certain way and having a kid changed my priorities. [/quote]

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