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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in perimenopause at 45. it sucks. I am seeing an endocrinologist who is universally praised on DCUM as the guys to get our hormones "fixed"-dont believe the hype. Almost 1k out of pocket to him and he just pushed the estrogen patch within 10 minutes and Addyi. (which he was a researcher so no idea what kind of kick back he gets). OP bottom line, what you feel is normal. This dr said women crave way more variety than man in long term sexual relationships. He said he sees 10 women a day who don't want sex with their husbands but masturbate all the time and would love to have affairs. I suggest you jus work on yourself before you start dealing with your marriage. Plan a solo trip or a girls trip, start a new hobby. Definitily make time for exercise to help your mood. No matter how much you don't love your DH, if its a workable marriage you should probably stay in it. A middle aged mom with three kids is not very dateable at all. Your DH will be dating and or remarried to someone younger than you within in a few years and you will be 50 with three kids and fully in menopause and no dates. [/quote] What horrible advice! Don’t listen to this BS. I’m the same age and get tons of attention from men. Unless you’ve totallly let yourself go and have not confidence, you will always be compatible with someone.[/quote]
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