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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whoa. I'm not quite understanding this. Why does your friend want to do this as her spouse is leaving for a work trip? Because she thinks she can drop this bomb, and then spouse will leave because their trip is critical, rather than staying around to argue/deal with it? Is she hoping spouse will cancel work trip, thus proving he loves her, or that he'll be such a mess on work trip that he'll damage his career? This timing seems like it's very intentional, but could blow back in her face, depending on what she's expecting.[/quote]

I thank you for response but soooooo many assumptions here including gender of friend.  Friend is done and has no intention of staying in marriage. Timing was lawyer’s idea to have house alone (with child) to regain composure. Friend really wants spouse to continue as planned with work trip. All known cheating buddies are work buddies so work trip is mixed business and pleasure. Friend is financially self sufficient so no financial blow back. Looking for advice on what else to do immediately after presenting paper and starting clock. Removing spouse from shared credit card, etc.[/quote]

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