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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here - I would hate it too if I was constantly nagged AND I knew I did something wrong.  That's double trouble there.  First off, you have to stop with the nagging and have a sit down with your husband.  If he's disorganized and has a cluttered mind (lots on his mind, etc), then he will continue to forget things or misplace things.  Lots of your challenges seem easily fixable - I recommend just sitting down with him rather than leave him little reminders.  Or, just do them yourself.[/quote]

Sitting down with him and what exactly? Ask him not to leave box cutters on the end table and every other detail of things? Doing everything myself isn’t feasible, I already do a lot of it but the solution to being careless about things can’t possibly be don’t worrry honey your wife will do literally everything for the kids and domestic chores[/quote]

Well, he's either completely distracted or oblivious or just doesn't care.  For the first 2, I think they are fixable.  Heck, maybe make a big deal about it one day so that he remembers.  If he doesn't care, then you have a much bigger problem in your relationship.

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