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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Start doing other activities. Take up a fitness class, schedule weekly grooming, do feel-good things. Look for slots that replace time you would normally spend with him. Start envisioning the type of person you’ll want to be once single, and work toward that. It takes time to reconstruct a dismantled dream - find a source of inspiration for the long, isolated valleys that divorce inevitably brings, even if you’re the one initiating it.

[b]I’m assuming there aren’t kids [/b]or they are out of the house now.[/quote]

Read the post.  OP has two elementary-age kids.[/quote]

Sorry, I missed that. My advice changes somewhat. OP should focus on a transition that supports her kids and how they will need to adjust. Therapy is critical for everyone, including the kids. Adults can real F up a situation, but I’d you get U.K. dance from experts and a good support system before you rip the bandaid off, it can help. The previous suggestion is still important for OP as an individual, but thy really needs to be balanced with making sure kids are going in a healthy direction when a family unit of abuse is deconstructed.[/quote]

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