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[quote=Anonymous]Attitudes like OP’s are the reasons that so many men are terrified of the bait and switch. I can’t believe some of the complaints from wives here. Let’s place this in a different context. How many of you grew up in a family where Mom and Dad were together, and either parent engaged actively in a hobby, chatted with buddies about it, and you know - lived life? The selfish expectations are unreasonable and I don’t think sustainable in the long term for a truly satisfying relationship between two healthy adults building a life together. Kids can change the dynamic for a little while; but each family is unique and should do what works for them. People really need to listen to what their spouse is asking for in life more after marriage, instead of checking them with the spousal obligation card over stupid stuff. You don’t waste your marital Trump card on stuff like this. [/quote]
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