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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be amicable and remind yourself why you are staying. Try not to get riled up and look to your kids when you feel like you’re going to be miserable forever. Not everyone gets the fairytale love story, but you can at least sleep at night knowing your kids are safe. The anxiety from the chance of him getting joint custody (and further any alone time) isn’t worth it. It’s possible to revisit divorce again when the kids are older and able to take care of themselves, and you can use that as a light at the end of a tunnel If you can, try and plan your own getaways with the kids so you can have some peace. Keep your schedule busy so you can just be two ships passing in the night. I’m sorry you’re stuck in this situation. [/quote] This is very good advice. I went through this but I was lucky to have a father who seriously put the fear of God in my ex that they were his grandchildren and they were all he cared about. My ex actually liked my Dad so he took the message seriously and things quickly worked out. Our relationship is good and my Dad and my ex still get along. [/quote]
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