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[quote=Anonymous]My husband has been doing this since our son was born 3 years ago. He used to work from home but now he just comes home for lunch Monday- Thursday. It's not normal to be around your spouse this much, right? It's disruptive to our sons nap schedule and my husband is only here for 15-20 minutes. Our son gets upset because he wants to play with dada. Is this one of those things I should just suck up and deal with? I think a lot a lot of it is in my head. I feel guilty that the house looks messy or I haven't cooked dinner yet or this or that. We also live in a 1 bedroom apartment. Sometimes our son is napping and he wakes up because he hears the front door open. Today I just blew up at my husband and told him to stop coming home. He gave our son puzzles that I had put away on purpose because of the mess he creates. Some days he will give him play dough for example and it creates such a mess! I am scrubbing the rub for hours after this. I remember my husbands friend made a comment about my husband working from home all the time when our son was a newborn. He asked us how we can stand being around each other 247. It got me thinking that it may not be a good idea to see each other everyday for lunch. On Fridays my husband goes to a church lunch and he always annoys me every Friday and ask if I am coming too. [/quote]
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