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Reply to "How does marriage counselin work if I go by myself and am no longer in love with DW but no affair?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I went to marriage counseling because my wife was having an affair. In our first visit, she told the therapist that she had no intention of cutting off contact with the new guy because she loved him more than me. That session ended. The next day I went back to the same therapist for individual counseling. That went on for about a year through my divorce and into my relationship with different women who turned out to be rebound. The counselor just listens. Half the time I sat there wondering why I was paying someone just to listen to me talk. Occasionally, I'd get little nudges in a certain direction and we'd talk about things. Mostly, it was just me talking, the therapist listening, and me feeling better about not going through it all on my own or dumping my problems on my friends who were tired of hearing about the same stuff everyday. [/quote]
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