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[quote=Anonymous]Hi, I hope it's ok to ask for help here.  I'm 32F, regular periods, doctors exam shows I should have no obvious issues conceiving. My DH  is my concern.  He is 35 and we are both so ready to be parents. The problem is he has ed (at least, that is what I am classifying it as) and will not go to a doctor due to embarrassment. We try and try but can't make it happen on our own. He can make it happen on his own, but not inside. He immediately "loses it" once inside. Is this classified as infertility? I've been googling and researching ways to get around this and am at a loss. He said that he feels a huge amount of pressure and it's performance anxiety.  He says it will pass and that's why he won't see a doctor.   We've been married for 4 years and have been trying for the last 2.5 years.  It's causing an immense amount of stress. I feel like it's my fault and that I'm not doing something right even though I am willing to try anything. I just feel like it's slowly pulling us further apart and I'm not sure what to do.  I'm 32 and don't want time to run out. I brought up going to the doctor and that there are ways around this (IUI) and he says that he can get past this make a baby the natural way.  I haven't been on birth control for 3 years. I'm crying as I type this as I feel like my future was so bright with a wonderful husband and family to be, and now everything is falling apart more and more each day. [/quote]

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