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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happened to me about 4 years ago. I was very passive when I was younger and generally unsure of myself.  This lead to a lot of me leaning DH's way the first 12-15 years of our marriage. As I grew and became more confident and more sure of what I wanted I started to speak up more.  Gradually DH got the memo but for the first year its like he didn't think I was serious. [/quote]

Yes, that was me too. Now I persuade/wrangle/fight for what I want.[/quote]

They would divorce you if had found your voice and learned to fight early on.or, not married you.[/quote]

Not necessarily, but it's true that some people would not want to marry their spouse if they knew what the future held for them at a given point. Like for many things, it's the process that has value. Compromise and respectful communication makes us more peaceful and efficient members of society. This doesn't need to be taught via a life partner, however that's what a life partner is all about.[/quote]

The space between the years is one thing, being silent on purpose is another. One is a process of learning,  the other is deceitful. [/quote]

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