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[quote=Anonymous]I’d invite him once then leave him out of activities if he doesn’t commit. I wouldn’t give reminders or wait for him to join. That’s just annoying. I’d increase the frequency your cleaners come to take the pressure off you for the upkeep on their off days. Then I’d slack off a lot and tell him to step up. Does he do tasks when he sees they need to be done? Like he won’t commit to doing the dishes every day but he’ll do them if he sees the sink is filling up? Or is he just refusing to pitch in until the mood strikes randomly? Can you make plans to be away from home/on an errand/on an important call at pickup time so he has to do it? It’s easier to shirk your duty if you have a reliable backup. Or could he do drop off instead? [/quote]
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