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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Isn’t history repeating itself? Didn’t intimacy with your first wife wane after your first child?  Regardless, I see you are trying to salvage the relationship. Go to couple’s therapy and stick to your guns on no third child (you already have 2 including a half sibling for your 2nd child). I’d also seriously consider a vasectomy.[/quote]

OP here.  Yes, definitely history repeats itself and I've been there/done that.  I think that's why I'm patient and want to ride it out because I know its temporary (my ex thought it was permanent and decided to open for legs for another dude but that's neither here nor there).  I did want another kid, so I'm happy with our 2 YO but for a specific reason, we did it via IVF.  I have a natural vasectomy, so no, no chance for another as long as I don't want to.[/quote]

OP, maybe you’ll be the exception, but in a significant number of cases - perhaps the majority of them - the DW’s libido (at least for her DH) is gone for good after kids.  Again, there are certainly exceptions to this, but the permanent version of what you describe is likely the most common of all complaints.[/quote]

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