Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Intimacy Doldrums - Advice?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, you need to get to the bottom of this can't-enjoy-sex-because-I-can't-procreate business. The rest of it sounds like fairly standard mismatched libido stuff. And a lot of that can be chalked up to challenges of having a young kid. But the procreation line sounds like she's starting to use pretexts to justify her libido to you. Even if having another kid wasn't off the table, it sounds pretty much guaranteed that she still wouldn't be initiating sex with you. And inventing pretexts that use sex as leverage to get her what she wants is a pretty toxic path to go down. Beyond that, you still need to talk. Mismatched libidos is a common, but challenging problem. Maybe hers will bounce back after the kid(s) get older, but there's a decent chance it will not. The chances that it won't bounce back increase if you're creating resentments during this period (by being lazy around the house, for example.) [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
