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[quote=Anonymous]What a lovely tradition your husband has with his mother and the mother of the child they lost. I don’t think those of us who have never lost a child can ever fully understand the grief involved and you trying to insert yourself may feel supportive to you but could feel very invasive to him. This is his loss, it happened way before you were in the picture and presumably you knew about it before you married him. Don’t make this hole in his heart about you. Be supportive of his tradition and if he doesn’t want you there, don’t push it. If he wants to talk about it, of course, listen and be there for him. But you complaining about being excluded is selfish and tone-deaf to his situation. [/quote]
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