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[quote=Anonymous]My husband of 7 years lost a child after birth 17 years ago. Every year on the date and time he meets the mother at the grave site. We have lived across the country and he still goes. I have never been asked to go and when I bring up going he is resistant. This year he agreed but asked me to stay in the car which I of course agreed. Husband and mother of child basically cried in each other's arms for 20 minutes. It was quite intimate looking even from 50 feet away. This makes me feel empty. I've never seen him cry over this situation or at all really. Maybe tear up but never sob. I want to reach him and heal with him but I'm not really welcomed to. I don't know how to feel or how to help. I just left that cemetery think "there's a huge monumental part of DH I won't ever get to know." When I lightly tip toe around the subject he always says the same thing "that day is over."[/quote]
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