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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He refuses to set boundaries or “inconvenience” them in any way. This goes from me putting out mugs he decided they would think we’re “weird” and changing them (clear glass to regular stoneware), changing the radio station to their kind of music (in a language I don’t understand), choosing only activities that they may like (I understand this one). [/quote] This sounds like good hosting, rather than "not setting boundaries" or "not inconveniencing them." Wouldn't you like a host to pick out the kind of mug they know you prefer? Play the music you like? Make plans you'll enjoy? This would go double if you were visiting another country (or a city you're not familiar with) and were 20-30 years older than you currently are. As for the food, if your husband isn't willing or able to cook, then work together with him to plan food that you are happy making and eating but that your guests will also enjoy.[/quote]
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