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[quote=Anonymous]What advice are you truly looking for on this forum?  You need couples counseling given the multiple issues that are presenting in your relationship especially in the multiple roles you have (cook, cleaner, child rearer) and the lack of inequity.

My DH is very similar.  Mornings are terrible for him.  We have to travel separately to work for our separate sanities, but he is in charge of getting the kids to daycare as I leave early to pick them up.  I leave by 6 after walking the dog, so he is in charge of the morning because I just couldn't handle him not getting his act together.  It took me taking the car and him struggling for about two weeks.  Now he has a routine and the kids make it to daycare and school.

I assume you guys have a joint bank account, or else I'd say just pay for a cleaning service out of your account.  I don't know how to advice you to get your own account to be able to do that, but think about how you could.  For your own sake.

I had a friend who went to take care of her sick mother for a month overseas and it wasn't until that time that her DH realized all that she did and all that he had to do in her absence. [/quote]

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