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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]twice a week, go in early to work in a separate car. take care of the animals before you leave.

hire a housekeeper or a service to clean the house once/week and do some laundry. [/quote]

OP here--DH does not want to hire a cleaning service....it's a battle....he does not want other people in the house without him being there. I have tried this twice and it's a yelling match: "they did a poor job...the house is still dirty...I have to pick up stuff before they come..."  I have hired a lawn service as well on a case by case basis and it's the same "they did a really poor job".  The reason I hire the lawn service is DH not having time to do it himself.[/quote]
tell him.... "then you can clean because I'm too tired".  End of story.[/quote]

I did that as well and nothing was done for two weeks until I got sick of living in a filthy house....this is why I think there is a deeper issues. When I was dating DH, the house was cleanish....not perfect, but also not filthy....[/quote]

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